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Feeding the Mind, Not Just the Mouth

Eating is a social and communicative activity

With an autistic child, eating can easily become an activity that is:

  • sensation-dominated, cutting out awareness of environment
  • mindless/ unmentalised, preventing symbolisation and thinking
  • anti-social, blocking communication with other people

The Autistic Child needs extra Help

through lively, human company from a warm interested adult

  • to make eating into a social and communicative fun occasion,
  • settting a reliable routine with clear boundaries:
    a) a regular place, a friendly atmosphere sitting at a table
    b) regular times: breakfast, lunch, snack, dinner
    c) after-school snack to be an interesting finger-food time
    d) food only when sitting down, and not all the/ any time
  • encouraging ways of eating/ foods that require some effort, especially chewing, or using straw, knife and fork:
    a) avoid mushy foods and those that can be just sucked, especially starchy foods like bread, biscuits, bananas, milk, sweets, chocolate, sweet or too much of drinks
    b) avoid bottles/ teats and continuous eating/ grazing